Arguments happen. Tensions rise. Words are exchanged, maybe someone calls the police just to “calm things down.” But in Nassau County, once law enforcement is involved, things can escalate quickly — even when that wasn’t your intention.
Domestic disputes are one of the most common reasons people with no prior criminal record find themselves suddenly facing charges. And in many cases, the person arrested never saw it coming.
Here’s what you need to know:
Once an officer responds to a domestic call, their report becomes evidence. Even if both parties later reconcile, the District Attorney’s office may still move forward with criminal charges, including harassment, assault, or even endangering the welfare of a child, depending on the facts.
In New York, you can be charged based on accusations alone. Physical harm is not always required for a misdemeanor charge. Things like yelling, slamming doors, or threatening words can be used against you in court — especially if there are prior calls to the home.
The judge may issue a temporary order of protection at arraignment. That means you could be barred from returning to your home or contacting the person involved, even if they don’t want that outcome. Violating it, even accidentally, can lead to additional charges.
Many people try to “clear the air” with the police or DA by explaining what really happened. Unfortunately, this often makes things worse. Your words can be twisted or misinterpreted. Always speak with a defense attorney first — especially before making any statements.
If you’ve been charged after a domestic dispute, it’s easy to feel embarrassed, angry, or helpless. But you’re not alone. These situations are far more common than people realize. What matters most is how you respond now.
Do not contact the alleged victim, even if you think they’ll drop the charges. Let your lawyer handle all communication.
Follow all court orders — especially any protective order.
Speak with a Nassau County defense attorney who knows how to handle domestic-related cases with discretion and care.
Call Laura Mecklosky at (516) 633-4879
📍 Based in Nassau County, NY
🖥️ nassaucountydefense.com
If you’re facing charges for the first time, it’s important to educate yourself and understand the process. Here are some trusted resources to help:
Official court information, location, hours, and contact details for Nassau County criminal court cases.
New York State Unified Court System – Criminal Cases
A helpful guide to understanding how criminal cases proceed in New York State courts.
New York State Sealing Law (Criminal Procedure Law 160.59)
Information on record sealing for certain eligible offenses in New York.
Nassau County Legal Aid Society
Legal resources and support for those who qualify for public legal assistance in Nassau County.
New York State Office of Court Administration – Criminal History Record Search
Information on how to check your criminal record status in New York.
